Saturday, February 7, 2009

Congratulations! If you're on this page, you must have been invited to join the most exclusive, Swingers Club in the Philippines! You are not allowed to be on this page if you're judgmental, close-minded, self-righteous or sexually repressed.


We typically prefer personal recommendations re: new applicants. If you know an existing member, nows the time to tell me.


Acceptance of new members depend on many factors, and LOOKS, hygiene, class, education, professional background, health etc., all play important roles in who gets accepted.


We are recruiting only a limited number of males.


Females are always welcome so if you REALLY want to get in? Bring a hot female companion with you.


Membership is a privilege and not a right, and we choose whoever we feel would be an asset to our club! If we don't contact you within 7 days, assume that your application has been denied.. Pls dont be offended, its not you, its just that we get tons of applicants and we can't take all of you in.


Although we accept members who'll just watch and not perform? We prioritize those who are actually WILLING to participate!


But if you DO get in? You'll have access to the best and wildest underground, "swinging" aka Sexual-Orgy parties, with the most gorgeous elite and wildest people in the Philippines, including foreigners-thats a proven fact!


Note:If you submitted your application and we thing you qualify? You'll still get invited to big events, although that does not mean you're officially "in".
Im usually at Embassy -The Fort with my husband, and if you're curious what Elite , Gorgeous REALLY means? We'll gladly show you some of the members currently there (if any).


To proceed, 1.Signup here 2.Open your email, verify confirmation link 3.send an email to erikahru@yahoo.com, and indicate the username you signed-up with.Please also indicate if you've been or are currently a member of any other "swinging" group in and outside the Philippines.


note: They are independent companies not affiliated with Swingers Manila. We are using these 3rd party services to weed out, underage applicants and for security and safety reasons.


With that said, goodluck on your application and kitakits na lang hopefully in one of our events :)


-- Erika L.

Head of Screening Committee - Swingers Manila

erikahru@yahoo.com


Sunday, January 18, 2009

Swingers Philippines Ground Rules


1. Usually limited to consenting couples (normally married or have
been sharing life and living together for more than a year). usually
begins with 2 couples sharing their partners and do their thing in
the same room to provide comfort to their wife that nothing untoward
happens or so husbands or male partners can intervene if their wife
is being "forced to do" something she does not like to do. later,
exceptions may be made among these couples as they might see fit and
proper as trust and confidence are developed over time.

2. for swinging couples who feel comfortable with the lifestyle
already, they might make arrangements to have 3somes during weekdays.
this gives single males or married men who love sex to get involved.
usually though, swinging couples would only prefer to have 3somes
with married males as married males would likely be more STD-free
than single males who are naturally more adventurous and likely to
catch STDs due to indiscretion.

3. single males who normally apply to be considered for 3somes take a
longer screening process from swinging couples who would look for
weaknesses like "having a loose tongue or unruly especially when
inebrated", impatience, negative-attitude, etc. swinging couples
(like it or not) are also human and are attracted to men or women who
are confident, very entertaining and outgoing, positive attitude in
life, clean and healthy, mature in thinking, etc.

4. when invited to join a swing party, you can be sure that all
present are looking for some sexual gratification during the
occasion. don't hesitate to approach a person or a group to introduce
yourself and strike (or join) a conversation. sports are usually a
good subject to start with. don't engage in arguments as to who is
the better team (or player) and who are not. the person you may be
arguing with might turn out to be the husband of the most gorgeous
lady in the party, and if the hubby says no to having you participate
in their intended activity for the evening, you may just have blown
your chances of participation. always have some rubber handy.

5. if you cannot keep a secret, you will likely not be invited to
join or participate (any longer) in these very private sexual
activities. remember, most swinging couples have attained a very high
degree of intellectual and sexual maturity, and will most likely be
community leaders on their own right. they would not indulge in some
overnight indiscretion just to ruin their reputation forever.

6. be always respectful and don't hesitate to ask for permission
(from lady and her partner) to do whatever you like doing. only when
they expressly give their permission should you proceed. else, that
will likely be your last opportunity to join a swing party.

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Monday, January 12, 2009

Premier Philippine Swingers Club Is Opening Its Doors To You!!!

If you have not attended an orgy/swingers party before? Heres what typically happens
Swingers' clubs are portrayed in the media as wall-to-wall, none-stop sex dens, and to be honest, I was expecting to be greeted by hoards of rampant people who wouldn't understand that I was a swinging club "virgin". I was very nervous about the whole thing, and for a few days before the "big night" I e-mailed a whole host of questions about the club to my Internet friend. Part of me thought I was being silly for asking questions like, "Will men take no for an answer?", but it was really playing on my mind that I would be expected to "perform" before I'd barely had chance to take my coat off. My friend was totally reassuring, and I believe now that without his patience and willingness to answer even the silliest of my questions I would have bottled out, and would not be here to tell the tale now.

Almost from the minute I walked into a club for the first time, I felt relaxed and welcome, and under no pressure whatsoever to "perform". Clubs have a very clear policy regarding sexual behaviour: basically "no means no" at all times. The majority of people are very careful not to over-step this mark. Sometimes this can result in a group of people sitting around, all secretly wishing something sexy would happen, but no one wanting to make the first move at risk of appearing pushy or offensive. If you've been to a club before and experienced this kind of situation you will know exactly how frustrating it can be! Sometimes, even if you're quite experienced, it is difficult to work out what people are doing there, who wants to play and who just wants to watch. So much for the stories of sex-crazed hedonism told by the tabloid media ? it really isn't that easy, believe me!

At some clubs (excepting couples only nights) single men are in the majority. Some of these men just go to watch, but the ones that go in hope of sex have to "compete" for the attentions of the women. Single women at clubs are quite rare, although some women do go alone, and seem to have a great time! Most women however, attend with their partners. Some couples go to meet and swap with other couples. Others go for "same room fun" only. This means playing with each other in the presence of others but not actually swapping partners. Still more couples go to "choose" one or more single men, who they might take into a private area (if available) for sex. In addition, there are some women who go to play with large groups of men, and who are happy to perform in public areas in front of a crowd.

Whether you are male or female, if you are going clubbing to do anything other than watch, your first job is to suss out who is up for what you want and who isn't. Getting it wrong happens, even if you are very experienced. I've been in a few situations where I have misunderstood peoples' intentions and ended up feeling slightly embarrassed! Of course, the most direct way of finding out what someone?s intentions are is to ask them. As in all situations where the negotiation of sexual favours is the issue, being friendly and polite is a must! You might think that because you are in a sex club, being blunt and to the point is a good way to go, but a brutal "Fancy a shag, darlin'?" might well come across as being a little too rude, even for the most hardened of swingers!

Having said that, there are situations where it is not appropriate to engage in a conversation to establish intentions. Perhaps, for example, you are in a situation where a couple is playing quite happily with one or two single guys in a private room. They have left the door open, which is normally a sign that they are happy for people to watch, and even join in. You would like to join them, so what do you do? Going over to them, tapping one of them on the shoulder and trying to start up a friendly conversation might well dampen the mood a little! In situations like this, going over and sitting close to them, and appearing obviously interested might well get you an invite to join in. If not, some people try the "light touch" technique, such as stroking one of the "players" on the arm or leg, just to test the water. If this is not welcome they will stop you, normally by moving your hand away or politely saying no. Yes, this can be slightly embarrassing, but nothing ventured, nothing gained. This type of "testing the water" is not generally considered too pushy unless you do not get the message straight away. If you are rebuffed, take the hint and keep your distance. If you don't stop touching, or then start again thirty seconds later hoping that they might have changed their minds, will not make you popular and in extreme cases is more likely to get you banned from the club than some sex!

Before my first ever trip to a club I only had a vague idea of what I might want to get up to in there. I sort of liked the idea of playing with lots of men (and maybe some women), but could not quite imagine how it would work in reality. Since then, I have explored my sexuality, my limits, and now have a very definite idea of what I want to happen on a particular night. If you think that swingers' clubs sound like fun I think it is important to have at least an idea of what you hope to get out of the experience before your first visit. That way you can choose a club that has the right facilities and the right type of night for you. You also need to be realistic in your expectations. Expecting clubs to be like they are portrayed in the media will only leave you disappointed. You must remember that swingers are just normal people, not sex-crazed demons willing to do anything you desire, and very few of us have super-model looks!

Clubs differ widely on what facilities they have available. Of the three clubs that I have been to over the last three years, all have at least one "couples room", which, as the name implies, is for couples only. Single men get booted out - fast! However, these rooms have windows that allow people to watch the action from outside the room. These rooms are great for both voyeurs and exhibitionists! Some clubs also have rooms that are totally private ? there are no windows and the door can be locked, and people just have to imagine, or listen to what is going on inside! In addition, for the people who like to play with big groups, and be watched performing (probably by the entire club!), clubs have open "romping" areas or "orgy rooms" where basically anything (consenting) goes! You might also find dark rooms, bondage equipment (ties, harnesses etc.), saunas, Jacuzzis, and a whole host of other "goodies"! Check out the web sites of the clubs in your area to see what facilities are available, and what whets your appetite, and then go for it!

Before you get your sexy undies on and tootle off to a club that tickles your fancy, you might consider which night you plan to go. Some nights are busier than others: Fridays and Saturdays tend to be the busiest nights, although it does vary both between and within clubs. If you want to throw yourself in at the deep end, I would say try one of these nights! If you want to paddle in the shallow end first, try a Sunday or a night in the week when it is likely to be less busy. Not all clubs open every night ? so check the opening times before you go - there's nothing worse than being all dressed up with no place to go!

Finally, increasingly, clubs are holding "theme" nights. Many clubs now have "couples only" nights, from which single men are banned. As I don?t go clubbing to meet couples normally, I have no experience of these nights, but I guess one of these nights would suit you if you are a couple not looking to meet single guys. Other types of nights include "greedy girls" nights, which are perfect for you if you are a woman who wants to play with several guys at once, or if you are a guy who likes to watch and/or participate in group sex. Then there are "bi" nights, which a few clubs in the country are now trying out. Although girl-on-girl sex is quite common in clubs, man-on-man sex is not usually seen. It does happen (believe me, it happens!), although a lot of people on the swinging scene frown upon it happening, particularly in public areas of the club. If you are a bi-male or a woman who likes watching man-on-man, a bi night is perfect for you. They are the best of all worlds! Before you go, do check with the club that they are not holding a theme night of a variety that might scare you off swinging for life!

So, those are the basics of club-style swinging as I see them. No one can give you a complete picture of the scene as we all have our own expectations, perceptions and agendas. The best way find out whether this scene is for you is to bite the bullet and go and see for yourse

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